Falling in love is an exciting time for a couple, and it feels as though intimacy and romance will carry into a long term commitment without any extra effort. Once you settle in your journey together you will realize the emotional and physical toll everyday responsibilities can take on both of you.

But that is not an excuse not to re-ignite the flame between you, despite life’s hardships. Make time for each other as you will feel emotionally more connected to your partner through intimacy. Here is a guide to help you make your wife feel confident and amazing. The lingerie is sure to follow!

Build her Confidence

You might not realize it, but your words of affirmation can really boost your spouse’s confidence. Compliments work best when they are unexpected so make sure to comment on how good she looks, how she carries herself or how happy you are to be together. No matter how long you have been together this is sure to give her butterflies in her stomach. Confidence is the first and most necessary step when you want your special lady to dress up.

Get flirty

Flirting can happen in many ways. Be playful and drop hints for your wife to know that regardless of how long you have been together, or how her body might have changes, that you want her! Make a funny sexy remark or touch her when nobody is watching. She will feel loved and cherished and that will surely inspire her to want to flirt back. Setting the mood is a glimpse of what is to come and let’s her know you are craving sexy time!

Physical Touch

Touching your partner will let her know that you want to be close to her. Your partner experiences pleasure when you touch her (even in a non-sexual way), and this experience may lead to greater sexual desire. Don’t save physical touch only for when you want sex. Gentle touches such as holding hand and cuddling, allow us to reconnect with our partner on a deep emotional level. Don’t overthink it. Simply make it spontaneous.

Envision the Look

Most men will get turned on but any sexy garment their spouse will wear but there are those looks that really get your heart racing. Give her some ideas of what you’d like her to wear. If she doesn’t normally wear lingerie remember to start simple and build up a lingerie repertoire over time. The most important thing is for her to feel comfortable and confident in what she is wearing. Share some links and ideas with her of what you think will look amazing on her curves!

Here are some ideas of styles that are fuss free and comfortable to start building her lingerie collection.

Discuss your fantasies

It is very easy to simply do what you have been doing. But every single hot blooded person on Earth has fantasies. It can be a daunting task if you keep them to yourself, but open up to your spouse. Talk about what fantasies you have and she might just make them come true! This is a great bonding exercise and will bring something new and enticing to your relationship.

These bedroom costumes are fantasy made into reality!

Out of routine

Having your spouse wear lingerie definitely makes the night a special one. You can clearly set the mood and indicate to her that you have put in effort into making this particular evening memorable. She will want to correspond to your effort and make it memorable for you too! Up your game with scented massage candles, lubricants, oils and edibles to entice your senses and make it extra fun!

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By Priscilla Olivier