A Beginner’s Guide to Adding Spice in the Bedroom

There is a whole world of options out there to spice things up in your relationship. But most people are very intimidated by kinky goods and are not sure how their partners will respond to it.

But the good news is that you can start with things that are not out there and can be a good starting point for getting more playful with your partner. Here are my top choices for spicing things up if you’re a beginner. 

Masks

Masks are a great place to start and can be added on to almost any lingerie look by complimenting it with a touch of sultriness and mystery. 

There is something inherently sexy about not giving everything away from the start. If you haven’t tried on a mask I strongly recommend you do!

Feather Ticklers

Being intimate is definitely an experience that heightens our senses and most kinky goods are there to enhance them. 

They work brilliantly with blindfolds as by removing one of your senses others tend to be heightened and feather ticklers increase the sensitivity of the skin with its soft touch. 

Blindfolds

A fun way to add a sensory experience to the bedroom. Great for beginners. You can get satin styles that are silky and playful.

Blindfolds are there to take away your sense of sight thus enhancing your other senses as explained earlier. But they also work great if you want to dress up and have your partner explore your body without being able to see you at least at first. You decide how long you want to keep them in the dark. 😏

Cuffs

Before you ditch the idea of cuffs remember you don’t have to go full on bdsm to enjoy them. Cuffs can be used to tie your partner’s wrists together or to a chair for instance so they can’t touch you. There is amazing sex appeal in being able to see but not touch.

Combining a blindfold and cuffs is a fun spicy option that let’s your partner feel your body against theirs driving them crazy for you. Try it and I guarantee your have your honey begging for more!

Lubricant

Before you roll your eyes please hear me out. There is a myth that lubricants are only needed when you struggle with dryness. But that is not always the case. The thing is, even when you’re turned on your body might take a while to catch up to your brain. That is completely normal and it doesn’t mean anything bad about you, how attracted your partner is to you, or how much sex appeal you’ve got.

Why not entice your senses with a lube that smells amazing? Your sense of smell plays a big role in your intimate moments with your partner. Go with a lubricant with heating effect for added stimulation. Give it a try!

Edibles

If you liked being kissed before, now it just got better! Edibles are a way of “giving back” to your lover as they get to taste something amazing while you enjoy every bit of that sensation. Our delicious gels will have them licking every bit off you!

Intimacy becomes more pleasurable which creates unforgettable sexual experiences. From foreplay to the act of love-making, you’ll want to enjoy every second of it!

Massage Candles and Oils

Let yourself be carried away with this massage oil that allows your hands and lips to travel pleasantly over your partner’s body or yours. Massaging your partner is not only pleasurable but makes for a time to bond physically and emotionally.

Massage oils can come in a bottle or in the shape of Brazilian balls making for a fun experience while also being more travel friendly. Brazilian balls come in different scent and effect options which will most definitely enhance your intimate moments.

Soy candles burn at a slightly higher temperature than average body temperature, and the wax it produces is skin safe in the form of a warm massage oil, so you can enjoy sensual time without risking any burns. They not only help set the mood but can also give you (and possibly a partner) a fun activity to get you warmed up for sex.

Games

Up your game! Get out of routine and ignite your passion with kinky and fun-filled games and novelties. What better way to get playful with your partner than with a game? Don’t worry everyone is a winner with our naughty games!

Novelties

Novelty items are your best friend if you want to try something new and fun. Having a good time with your loved one will get you in a more relaxed state and in tune with each other.

Enhancers

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Our enhancers can help you become more aroused and feel more pleasure during intimate moments.

Indulge your senses and make intimacy with your partner all the more fun! 😎

By Priscilla Olivier